Ally Lewber Says She's 'Okay' and 'Taking the Time' She Needs After Boyfriend James Kennedy’s Domestic Violence Arrest

Mar. 15, 2025

James Kennedy and Ally Lewber.Photo:Jeff Kravitz/Getty Images

James Kennedy and girlfriend Ally Lewber

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Ally Lewberis speaking out following her boyfriendJames Kennedy’s domestic violence arrest.

On Saturday, Dec. 14, theVanderpump Rulesstar, 28, shared a statement on herInstagram Stories, thanking fans for their support and letting them know how she is doing.

“Thank you to everyone who has reached out with love and support and for checking in on me,” she wrote.

“I’m okay and taking the time I need right now,” she continued. “I deeply appreciate all the kindness and respect for my privacy during this time.”

Ally Lewber’s Instagram Stories post.Ally Lewber/Instagram

Ally Lewber instagram

Ally Lewber/Instagram

Ally Lewber attends New Year’s Eve with Windsor at Short Stories Hotel on Dec. 11, 2024.Gonzalo Marroquin/Getty

Ally Lewber attends New Year’s Eve with Windsor at Short Stories Hotel on December 11, 2024

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A police spokesperson confirmed to PEOPLE on Dec. 12 that the Burbank Police Department was called to theVanderpump Rulesalum’s Los Angeles home on Tuesday, Dec. 10, “regarding an argument between a man and a woman.”

According toTMZ, who was first to break the news, citing a law enforcement source, a witness reportedly saw Kennedy become physical with the woman, but authorities did not see any injuries when they arrived on the scene. He was released on $20,000 bail, the outlet reported.

James Kennedy at DirecTV’s Christmas at Kathy’s at the Hiltons' private residence on December 10, 2024 in Los Angeles, California.

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Earlier that night, the couple had attendedKathy Hilton’s annual holiday party. A source told PEOPLE the pair spent much of the event apart and didn’t show much affection toward each other.

A second source claimed Kennedy was “acting so erratic, running back and forth to the bar and body-checking people along the way. He appeared inebriated. Spent the evening mostly alone but when he did speak to people, he appeared irritated and rude.”

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James Kennedy and Ally Lewber.River Callaway/Variety via Getty

James Kennedy and Ally Lewber

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Kennedy and Lewber began dating in January 2022, just over a month after Kennedy ended his engagement to hisVPRcostarRachel (formerly Raquel) Leviss. The couple first met at a concert forTom Sandoval’s band, The Most Extras.

Lewber later admitted she had been a fan of the Bravo show,tellingAndy Cohenduring the show’s season 10 reunion, “I had seenVanderpump Rules. During COVID, I went down the Bravo rabbit hole.”

In June 2023, the two moved in together to a house in Burbank, Calif. The spacious abode has three bedrooms, a swimming pool and a DJ studio for Kennedy.

If you are experiencing domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or go tothehotline.org. All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.

source: people.com