Barry Keoghan Explains Why He Deactivated His Instagram After Sabrina Carpenter Breakup: ‘Can Only Sit and Take So Much’

Mar. 15, 2025

Barry Keoghan at the 15th Governors Awards on Nov. 17, 2024.Photo:Gilbert Flores/Variety via Getty

Gilbert Flores/Variety via Getty

Barry Keoghanhas deactivated his Instagram account and made his first public comment in the wake of his breakup fromSabrina Carpenter.

After deactivating the account, Keoghan, 32, released a statement onX (formerly Twitter)on Saturday, Dec. 7, to explain his departure. A source previously confirmed to PEOPLE on Dec. 3. that he and Carpenter, 25,“decided to take a break”after a year of dating.

“I can only sit and take so much,” theSaltburnactor began his message, noting that his name has been “dragged across the internet.”

“I have to respond now because it’s gettin to a place where too many lines are being crossed. I deactivated my [Instagram] account because I can no longer let this stuff distract from my family and my work,” he wrote.

TheDunkirkactor noted that “no person should ever have to read” the messages he has received, adding, “Absolute lies, hatred, disgusting commentary about my appearance, character, how I am as a parent and every other inhumane thing you can imagine.”

“That’s crossing a line,” he emphasized.

Keoghan defended himself as a father as well as make a plea for decency on behalf of hisson Brando, 2, whom he shares with exAlyson Sandro.

“Each and every day I work harder to push myself on every level to be the healthiest and strongest person for that boy,” he explained. “I want to provide opportunities for him to learn, fail and grow. I want him to be able to look up to his daddy, to have full trust in me and know I will have his back no matter what.”

“I want you to [remember] that he has to read ALL of this about his father when he is older,” he concluded. “Please be respectful to all.”

A few days after Keoghan and Carpenter split, another source toldPEOPLEthat he is “doing better than ever.”

“He is at his strongest and happiest and is the best version of himself to date,” the source continued. “He has been very resilient and triumphed through a lot to be in this place. He worked hard to get here and remains focused – and though he and Sabrina are on a break – that isn’t setting him back in any way – he has a lot of fortitude.”

The insider said that the actor was a “fantastic boyfriend” and was “very present” throughout the relationship, adding, “He worked very hard to be there for her when she needed someone most.”

Barry Keoghan and Sabrina Carpenter attend The 2024 Met Gala on May, 6, 2024.Kevin Mazur/MG24/Getty

Kevin Mazur/MG24/Getty

The source also addressed the infidelity rumors that have been swirling since the breakup, insisting it was not a factor in the split.

“He was always very faithful to her from the start, there was no third party involved in their break or at any other point in their relationship. Reports indicating otherwise are entirely fabricated,” the source added.

The actor and “Espresso” singer first sparked romance rumors when they were spotted at dinner together in December 2023 after meeting earlier that year at Paris Fashion Week.

The pair attended the2024 Met Galatogether, and Keoghan famously appeared in the music video for Carpenter’s song “Please, Please, Please.”

At the time, Carpenter noted that the decision to cast her boyfriend was “unbiased.” “I was like, ‘Who’s the greatest actor that I can find for this music video?’ And he was next to me in a chair,” she said while appearing onCBS Sunday Morningin October.

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Keoghan also spoke extremely highly of the singer while appearing on Sirius XM’sThe Jess Cagle Showin November.

“I don’t know anyone who works as hard. I’m in awe watching her work and how committed and the standards that she sets.”

Keoghan recently wrapped Netflix’sThe Immortal Manand is now filming Amazon’sCrime 101.He is also set to star inBring Them Downas wellHurry Up Tomorrowopposite Jenna Ortega.

Carpenter, who has not commented on the split, is ending her busy year with Netflix’sA Nonsense Christmas with Sabrina Carpenter.

source: people.com