Ben Higgins Says Being a Girl Dad Is ‘Frightening,’ But He's ‘Excited’ for ‘Tea Parties’ and to ‘Let Her Paint My Nails’ (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

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Ben Higgins and Jessica Clarke attend iHeartRadio 102.7 KIIS FM’s Jingle Ball 2023 Presented by Capital One at The Kia Forum on December 01, 2023 in Los Angeles, California.

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Ben Higginsis getting ready to become a girl dad.

“It’s frightening,” he says of raising a daughter, adding that he’s a “sensitive dude” who knows “a girl’s going to break me and I don’t know in what ways yet, but it’s going to happen and I’m prepared for it.”

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He goes on to share his excitement for being a girl dad, sweetly telling PEOPLE, “I’m ready to be the guy that she leans on to talk to about boys, and I’m ready to be the example for who she desires in a relationship and I’m excited about that responsibility. It gives me a little role, I think, in a new stage of life.”

“But it’s also frightening because I know she’s going to have me wrapped around her finger and I’m going to get broken,” adds theAlmost Famouspodcast host.

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But what he’s the most excited for is “the idea of seeing life get brought into this world for the first time,” because, “there was a period in my life where I didn’t know if I was going to.”

He says, “I don’t know what that looks like. I don’t know what that feels like. I don’t know what the emotions are there. And I’m excited to experience that.”

“I’m excited for the struggle a little bit,” he admits. “I am excited to lean into that with my wife. Like I said, if I didn’t have a partner that I fully believed in and trusted and loved, I’d be probably freaking out. But I’m like, I think this is going to make us stronger as a couple, and it’s going to give us a whole new story to tell and a whole new story to build.”

The formerBachelorstar and his wife first announced theirexciting pregnancy newsin August with a heartfelt Instagram Reel.

source: people.com