Dolly Parton and Her Husband Carl Dean Met in a Laundromat. She Told PEOPLE Why They Kept Their Relationship So Private

Mar. 15, 2025

Dolly Parton in 1977.Photo:Tom Hill/WireImage

Tom Hill/WireImage

Dolly Parton’s husband of nearly 60 years, Carl Dean,died on March 3, 2024. In this exclusive sit-down with PEOPLE in 1977, she discussed their relationship and insisted she would never leave Nashville. Dean died in Nashville 48 years after this interview was originally published.

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Her old mentor and duet partnerPorter Wagonerdeclares, “She’s as creative as anyone I’ve ever met, including Hank Williams.” But, in every other aspect, the oldDolly Partonact ain’t what it used to be.

At 31, she has traumatically just fired her Travelin’ Family Band, which included four siblings, an uncle and a cousin. She’s split with Wagoner and replaced her manager with the hotshot Hollywood firm that handlesJoan RiversandCher. Has the queen-to-be of country music abdicated even beforeLoretta Lynnstepped aside?

Dolly Parton in 1977.Chris Walter/WireImage

Chris Walter/WireImage

As Parton herself justifies the new departure, “I want people to know there is a lot more to me — good or bad — than they’ve seen so far. All I’m asking is a chance to prove it. I needed to reorganize to try to make those dreams come true,” Dolly adds delicately, never saying what had been quietly acknowledged on Music Row: that the cornball combo of kinfolk was not up to the star (nor to the slick Gypsy Fever Band that’s taken over).

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“These are awfully hurtful decisions I’ve had to make,” winces Dolly. “I’ve suffered a lot, and I’ll suffer some more because of the great love I have for the people involved. I may be an eagle when I fly, but I’m a sparrow when it comes to feelings.”

“Many of my friends are afraid I might be screwing up,” Dolly admits of her own artistic accommodation with pop. “And,” she adds, “some are afraid I will do good. But I’ll never turn my back on the people who made me want to sing and write. I’m not leaving Nashville. Roots are important to me, and my roots are here.”

She met her future husband, Carl Dean, now 35, at a laundromat in her first 24 hours in Nashville. Dean, a lanky Nashville native who owns an asphalt paving company, has resolutely stayed out of Dolly’s career throughout their 10-year marriage. He’s never even seen her perform. (Admittedly, the local deejays who leeringly introduce her at concerts with lines like “Dolly burned her bra — it took three days” wouldn’t encourage any husband.)

“He’s sort of shy and quiet,” Dolly understates. “What we have together is so sweet and good that I’d never want it to get jumbled up with the other.” When lonely, she phones an SOS to Carl to wing in for a couple of nights.

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Dolly and Carl live outside Nashville in a 23-room Tara with 200 acres, a mobile home for her folks when they visit, 25 polled Herefords, two peacocks, two hounds and Dolly’s 17-year-old kid sister Rachel. Four other Partons were raised there. “I don’t know that I won’t have children someday,” she says. “But it’s just not possible for me to bear children and leave them for somebody else to raise while I have a career. If I wait until I’m naturally too old to have children, I can always adopt them.”

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In the meantime there are her compositions. “When I listen to my own things, I think to myself, ‘I was the mother of that.’ ”

She has “lots of offers” to write or star in movies and is looking for a Mary Tyler Moore or Doris Day-style comedy. What’s next? “I may go to heavier lyrics or back to simple country on my next album. I had to try things my way. I can only be what I am. I’m Dolly Parton from the mountains, and that’s what I’ll remain.”

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