Kim Zolciak-Biermann Says It Will Take Her 'a Long Time to Heal from the Trauma' of Kroy Biermann Divorce

Mar. 15, 2025

From left: Kroy Biermann and Kim Zolciak-Biermann.Photo:Charles Sykes/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty

Charles Sykes/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty

Kim Zolciak-Biermannis giving an update on her ongoing divorce fromKroy Biermann.The formerReal Housewives of Atlantastar claimed Kroy was to blame for theescalating problems between the pair, tellingTMZthat “there’s a track record of Kroy being the problem.”“Nobody has any idea what I’ve dealt with the last two and half, three years of my life,” she said, seemingly referring to the paircalling it quitsfor a second time after briefly reconciling in 2023. “I’m trying to take the high road.”While addressing how the former couple could become “more amicable,” the reality star noted, “I’m a normal, rational person that doesn’t see the need for any of this control and chaos.”When asked if Kroy was “too controlling,” she claimed, “To say the least.” She alleged that the last few years have been “torture” for her amid the ongoing divorce.Kim Zolciak attends Gucci Mane Black Tie Gala at St. Regis Atlanta on February 13, 2020 in Atlanta, Georgia.Prince Williams/WireimageThe former Bravo star said she isn’t holding out hope that Kroy will change his ways, claiming, “He has changed, and it didn’t work. Not for the good.“A representative for Kroy did not immediately return PEOPLE’s request for comment.The reality star also addressed the former couple’s living situation and claimed they are still under the same roof. She added that the recent visits to their shared home from police over domestic disputes has been “awful” and “terrible.”Most recently, authorities responded to a call from their Atlanta home over a parking issue, the Milton Police Department confirmed to PEOPLE. They were also called one day before Thanksgiving after they accused each other of domestic violence. However, the police made no arrests due to their contradicting stories, PEOPLE confirmed through a police report.In April, Kim called 911 to report that Kroy had allegedly violated a December 2023 court order that required eachto stay on separate sides of the house.Despite their rocky split, Kim shared that she would “absolutely” settle down again. “It’s gonna take me a long time to heal from the trauma that I’ve experienced,” she told TMZ.Kroy Biermann and Kim Zolciak visit “Extra” at H&M Times Square on October 3, 2017 in New York City.J. Kempin/GettyNever miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer​​, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.The couple, whomet in May 2010during an event filmed for theRHOA,filed for divorce in May 2023. In July of that same year, they decided tocall it off, but Kroy filed for asecond timea month later.During their 12-year marriage, Kim and Kroy welcomed fourkidstogether:Kroy “KJ” Jagger Jr., Kash and twinsKaia Rose and Kane Ren.Kroy also legally adopted Kim’s two older daughters from a previous relationship,BrielleandAriana. Their blended family life was chronicled on the Bravo spinoff seriesDon’t Be Tardy.

Kim Zolciak-Biermannis giving an update on her ongoing divorce fromKroy Biermann.

The formerReal Housewives of Atlantastar claimed Kroy was to blame for theescalating problems between the pair, tellingTMZthat “there’s a track record of Kroy being the problem.”

“Nobody has any idea what I’ve dealt with the last two and half, three years of my life,” she said, seemingly referring to the paircalling it quitsfor a second time after briefly reconciling in 2023. “I’m trying to take the high road.”

While addressing how the former couple could become “more amicable,” the reality star noted, “I’m a normal, rational person that doesn’t see the need for any of this control and chaos.”

When asked if Kroy was “too controlling,” she claimed, “To say the least.” She alleged that the last few years have been “torture” for her amid the ongoing divorce.

Kim Zolciak attends Gucci Mane Black Tie Gala at St. Regis Atlanta on February 13, 2020 in Atlanta, Georgia.Prince Williams/Wireimage

Prince Williams/Wireimage

The former Bravo star said she isn’t holding out hope that Kroy will change his ways, claiming, “He has changed, and it didn’t work. Not for the good.”

A representative for Kroy did not immediately return PEOPLE’s request for comment.

The reality star also addressed the former couple’s living situation and claimed they are still under the same roof. She added that the recent visits to their shared home from police over domestic disputes has been “awful” and “terrible.”

Most recently, authorities responded to a call from their Atlanta home over a parking issue, the Milton Police Department confirmed to PEOPLE. They were also called one day before Thanksgiving after they accused each other of domestic violence. However, the police made no arrests due to their contradicting stories, PEOPLE confirmed through a police report.

In April, Kim called 911 to report that Kroy had allegedly violated a December 2023 court order that required eachto stay on separate sides of the house.

Despite their rocky split, Kim shared that she would “absolutely” settle down again. “It’s gonna take me a long time to heal from the trauma that I’ve experienced,” she told TMZ.

Kroy Biermann and Kim Zolciak visit “Extra” at H&M Times Square on October 3, 2017 in New York City.J. Kempin/Getty

J. Kempin/Getty

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The couple, whomet in May 2010during an event filmed for theRHOA,filed for divorce in May 2023. In July of that same year, they decided tocall it off, but Kroy filed for asecond timea month later.

During their 12-year marriage, Kim and Kroy welcomed fourkidstogether:Kroy “KJ” Jagger Jr., Kash and twinsKaia Rose and Kane Ren.

Kroy also legally adopted Kim’s two older daughters from a previous relationship,BrielleandAriana. Their blended family life was chronicled on the Bravo spinoff seriesDon’t Be Tardy.

source: people.com