Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo's Relationship Timeline

Mar. 15, 2025

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More than six years afterRachel LindsayandBryan Abasolomet on her season ofThe Bachelorette,Abasolo filed for divorce in December 2023.

“Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew,” Abasolo wrote onInstagramannouncing the news. “Sometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go.”

Lindsay and Abasolo’sdivorce was officially finalized in January 2025. The exes went back and forth regarding spousal support, and according to court docs, Lindsay was ultimately required to pay Abasolo $500,00 as an equalization payment.

The former couple met on night one of Lindsay’s season when Abasolo walked out of the limo and charmed Lindsay with some Spanish and a kiss. Their relationship deepened as season 13 progressed, and during the season finale, they gotengagedin Spain.

In August 2019, the chiropractor and theExtracorrespondentgot marriedin Mexico and enjoyed ahoneymoonin Greece.

From the first impression rose to their separation, here’s a complete timeline of Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo’s relationship.

May 22, 2017: Rachel Lindsay gives Bryan Abasolo her first impression rose

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Lindsay and Abasolo had an instant connection on the first night of filming for season 13 ofThe Bachelorette, and Lindsay gave Abasalo thefirst impression rose. Abasolo also got the first kiss of the season.

“From the moment you walked out of the limo, I felt something that was unexplainable,” Lindsay told the Miami native during theepisode. She joked, “I don’t know if it was because you told me I was gonna be in trouble, I don’t know if it’s because you spoke to me in Spanish, but there was something there.”

June 26, 2017: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo go on a one-on-one date in Norway

During week five of Lindsay’s season, the pair enjoyed their firstone-on-one datein Oslo, Norway, where they rode a tram, went rappelling down the Holmenkollen Ski Jump and had a vulnerable dinner conversation. Both Lindsay and Abasolo opened up about their adolescent and young adult years during their conversation, and Lindsay offered Abasolo a rose at the end of the evening.

Abasolo also told Lindsay he was falling in love with her.

July 24, 2017: Bryan Abasolomeets Rachel Lindsay’s family

Toward the end of the season, Lindsay brought Abasolo, along with her two other final suitors, home to Dallas meet her family. Her family members had some concerns over Abasolo’s intentions and wasn’t sure he was sincere.

Ahead of theMen Tell Alltaping, Lindsay told PEOPLE, “Some of things my family felt about Bryan, I understood because that’s how I felt at first.” She added, “I didn’t give Bryan the easy road out. Yeah, people see us kiss and stuff, but you constantly hear me question him being charming, whether or not he’s genuine.I questioned him a lotso I understood why they did that at first.”

She continued, “But at the same time, you see my frustration because I felt like they weren’t as open-minded as they were with the other two men. I got defensive. There are some things you didn’t see play out,” she told PEOPLE. Ultimately, she trusted her gut and gave Abasolo a rose after her hometown date.

August 7, 2017: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo get engaged onThe Bacheloretteseason finale

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When Abasoloproposedin Spain with a 3-carat, platinumNeil Lanediamond ring during the season 13 finale, Lindsay’s responsed with an immediate “Yes!”

She later shared with PEOPLE that the special moment was an “out-of-body experience.”

“I blanked out on what I was saying — I meant it and it was from the heart, but it was just so surreal that it was happening,” Lindsay recalled.

The reality star continued, “I mean we’re in Spain, we’re on top of this castle. I’m standing in front of the man of my dreams, and now he’s about to get down on one knee. And so the moment he did it, it was like, ‘Oh my gosh, this is happening!’ I couldn’t do anything but scream. Like that’s all I could do, I was so happy.”

November 2017: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo start living together in Dallas

The couple began their life together in Lindsay’s hometown. She toldEntertainment Tonight, “This is my city. This is where I was born and raised, but it’s been forever since I’ve had a man with me here, and let alone a fiancé.”

“It’s great to have Bryan here with me and to show him my city and where I’m from. I’m glad he loves it. That’s what’s key,” she added.

March 26, 2019: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo move to Miami

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In March 2019, Lindsay and Absolomoved to Miamifor both of their respective careers. “Well she’s taking off in the sports entertainment industry so she left her law firm back in December and she’s very flexible with her schedule now and my network is in Miami so I think we’re going to take the move to Miami,” Abasolo toldAccess Livein an interview.

Lindsay shared a farewellInstagram photoof her and her luggage on March 26, 2019, captioned: “Dallas I’m going to miss you so much 😩😩😩 but I’ll always be reppin you 💛.”

August 24, 2019: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo get married in Mexico

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The coupletied the knotat the Royalton SuitsCancún in Mexico. Wedding planner Michael Russo shared with PEOPLE, “Rachel was the epitome of elegance and grace as she walked down the aisle towards Bryan. The ceremony was filled with so much joy, love and laughter.” Plenty ofBachelor Nation alums were in attendance, includingKristina Schulman,Astrid LochandBibiana Julian, among others.

Russo added, “As they exchanged their personal handwritten vows, you could feel the unbridled emotion and powerful connection between them.”

August 28, 2019: Rachel Lindsay says she and Bryan Abasolo are thinking about starting a family

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Less than a week after they wed, Lindsay spoke to PEOPLE about the possibility of expanding their family.

“I would say thatwe want babies sooner rather than later,” Lindsay said. “I would say we start trying within a year!” She noted that Abasolo’s mother was particularly interested in the topic. “His mother has already been asking, ‘When are you going to start having babies?’ I think it’s just a natural progression!”

August 29, 2019: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo honeymoon in Greece

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After exchanging vows in Mexico, the newlyweds headed to Santorini, Greece, for aromantic honeymoon. They both shared snapshots of the gorgeous getaway on social media.

Lindsay posted aphotoof the duo looking content next to their hotel pool, captioned: “C.A.P.T.I.V.A.T.E.D.” In a separate post, she shared a mid-swim makeout moment and wrote, “Plenty of fish in the sea but I definitely caught the best one.”

January 20, 2020: Rachel Lindsay is a guest on Bryan Abasolo’s podcast

In January 2020, Lindsay served as her husband’s inaugural guest on his new podcastHealthcast; the couple discussed how they’ve managed to maintain a healthy relationship.

“WE DID A THING TOGETHER,” Lindsay wrote onInstagram. “This interview was really special because @thebryanabasolo was able to ask questions on another level because he knows me in a different way.”

March 2020: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo quarantine together during the pandemic

During an appearance onRealitea with Derek Z, Lindsay discussed her and Abasolo’s joint quarantine experience. “Absolutely we’ve had fights. Absolutely,” she said. “We get on each other’s nerves.”

“The key to surviving quarantine is space,” she explained. “He’s a chiropractor, so he’s still considered an essential worker. And I do my work from here and it’s like we separate, we do our thing, and then we come together at the end of the day.” She called the situation “fantastic” and noted, “We’re independent.”

Lindsay later told PEOPLE that quarantine was a “beautiful” experience for the couple.

“I think that having this time in quarantine was beautiful for us because we really got to connect again and spend every day together,” she explained. “We’vedefinitely grown close togetherbecause we’re planning a future … We’re starting to have those conversations about where do we plant roots and having children and what’s the timeline for that.”

August 24, 2020: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo celebrate their one-year anniversary in Aruba

Abasolo also shared a touchingInstagram tributeto mark the occasion. “I can’t believe it’s already been a year since we both said “I Do,” he wrote to Lindsay. “I consider myself beyond lucky to be able to call you my wife and truly blessed to be your husband. I wake up every single day a better man because you are always there to support, encourage and love me no matter what.”

In ananniversary Instagram postof her own, Lindsay wrote, “One year + FOREVER … I love you and I am beyond thankful for you.”

October 23, 2020: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo open up about living apart from each other

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The couple discussed their reasoning forliving apartduring an episode of Abasolo’sDr. Abs Healthcastpodcast. Ultimately, Lindsay moved to Los Angeles for her career while Abasolo tended to his chiropractor business back in Miami.

Lindsay told Abasolo on the podcast, “You’re focusing on your practice and building it to a place you want it to be, and I am here in L.A. working forExtraand doing other things, and we’re doing this to eventually bring ourselves together.” She emphasized that they “know what [they’re] trying to build.”

The chiropractor expressed his support for Lindsay’s professional aspirations. “For me, I want you to go do your thing in L.A., I want you to be as successful as possible,” he said. “You’re killing it right now, and I love it.”

January 27, 2021: Rachel Lindsay shares that her father was skeptical of her relationship with Bryan Abasolo

When Lindsay appeared on SiriusXM’sRadio Andy, hostAndy Cohenpointed out that she and Abasolo beat the odds. He called it “kind of incredible” that they were still together.

The former Bachelorette agreed and noted that navigating a relationship in the public eye is tough. “Then you’ve got to deal with family,” she added. “Family doesn’t really believe it. You know, my dad is a federal judge. He was like, ‘You guys are infatuated with each other.‘He was not buying into it. It took time for him to realize we were really in love and this was the real deal.”

February 15, 2021: Bryan Abasolo supports Rachel Lindsay amid Chris Harrison controversy

During an episode of hisTalking It Outpodcast, Abasolo supported Lindsay following her interview with formerBachelorhostChris Harrison, in which he defended contestantRachael Kirkconnellafter racially insensitive photos from her past surfaced.

He told co-host and fellowBachelorettecontestantMike Johnson, “I definitely lost respect for him after watching that interview. I thought what he said was irresponsible, it was hurtful and it was just flat-out unacceptable.”

April 1, 2021: Bryan Abasolo moves to Los Angelesto be with Rachel Lindsay

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After living bi-coastal to focus on their careers, the then-couple reunitedin Los Angeles. “Not an April fools joke,” Lindsay wrote on herInstagramto announce the news.“RnB are back where we belong — together.”

She anotherpost about the newsthe following day, writing: “That Friday feeling ✨ we’ve got a new @higherlerning episode, Bryan is getting settled in LA this weekend, and it’s a good day. Hope you all have a great weekend!”

June 28, 2021: Bryan Abasolo says Rachel Lindsay “challenges” him to be a “better man”

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While chatting with guestJason Tartickand his co-host Johnson on an episode of theirTalking It Outpodcast, Abasolo praised Lindsay and opened up about howshe makes him a better person. “I feel like for me, in my situation, Rachel just had like, an X factor,” he said. “She was a triple threat: brains, beauty, personality, great sense of humor.”

TheBachelorettewinner called Lindsay a “professional” and “everything [he] could ever want in a woman.” He added, “But the thing is, like, she keeps me on my toes, right? She challenges me to be a better man and I feel like guys need that.”

August 18, 2021: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo visit Colombia together for the first time

The then-couple attended Abasolo’s cousin’s wedding together, marking Lindsay’s firsttrip to Colombia, Abasolo’s native country. “I visited beautiful Colombia for the first time to celebrate the wedding of my prima @valeriecoheni!!” She wrote onInstagram. “I met so many of Bryan’s family members who welcomed me with open arms.

August 24, 2022: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo celebrate their third anniversary

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For theirthird anniversary, Abasolo shared a photo of the couple celebrating with acozy date night,“Cheers to Love! 🥂Happy 3rd Anniversary @therachlindsay I love you!”

Lindsay celebrated the occasion with anInstagram videofeaturing some of their most cherished moments as a couple. “Happy 3rd Anniversary to my best friend,” she wrote in the caption. “Each year gets better. Love you forever ❤️♾️.”

February 3, 2023: Rachel Lindsay credits Ashton Kutcher for helping her find Bryan Abasolo

When Lindsay interviewedReese WitherspoonandAshton KutcherforExtra, she shared howKutcher directly influenced her journeyto find love. Kutcher appeared on Lindsay’s season with his wife,Mila Kunis, and the actors hosted a group date, which Abasolo was notably not on. The former Bachelorette shared that Kutcher’s advice for her at the time “really helped.”

She recalled, “He said to me, ‘I’m telling you: I’m looking around this room and your husband’s not here.’ " Lindsay also said that Kutcher’s more general advice had continued to help her maintain her marriage with Abasolo.

“[Kutcher] told me to talk to him about love languages and read the bookSapiens,” she explained. “I remember all this advice — and it worked. We’ve been married three and a half years.”

December 31, 2023: Bryan Abasolo files for divorce from Rachel Lindsay

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“Many of you know me as a chiropractor and also as a husband, my proudest role so far,” he wrote on Instagram, adding that he and Lindsay had separated. “Please respect the spaces of our family and friends as we figure out our next steps.”

January 5, 2024: Rachel Lindsay breaks silence about divorce from Bryan Abasolo

On an episode of her podcast,Higher Learning, Lindsay briefly acknowledged her separation and pending divorce from Abasolo.

June 6, 2024: Rachel Lindsay says “everybody should have a prenup”

During an appearance onHidden Gems with Natasha Parker, Lindsay advocated that “everybody should have a prenup,” although she and Abasolo never signed one.

“We weren’t on the same page with prenups, and I didn’t want it to be a bigger issue, so we didn’t have one,” she said. “You know, hindsight’s 20/20. I would’ve done it.”

The reality star added: “I’m not the same person that I was when I got married. And that’s why a prenup is necessary because you’re dealing with dissolving a marriage, and you’re two different people. My mistake is expecting that people will handle it in the same way.”

June 26, 2024: Rachel Lindsay says she found out Bryan Abasolo filed for divorce in a text message

“Approximately 30 minutes after he left the house, he sent me a text message that simply read ‘Hey … I just wanted to let you know that I officially filed,’ " she said in the documents.

The paperwork also included a screenshot of the conversation. A text from Abasolo to Lindsay was sent at 11:43 a.m. on Jan. 2 that said, “Hey…I just wanted to let you know that I officially filed.” Lindsay replied, “Wait what?”

January 7, 2025: Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo finalize their divorce

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After months of legal negotiations, Lindsay and Abasoloreached a divorce settlement. Court documents revealed thatThe Bachelorettestar would retain their home in Los Angeles and a 2023 Porsche Macan, while Abasolo would keep the pair’s Miami condo and a 2021 Honda Accord.

Lindsay was also required to pay her ex-husband a lump sum of $500,000.

source: people.com