Yoko Ono and John Lennon in May 1971.Photo:Dennis Stone/Mirrorpix/Getty
Dennis Stone/Mirrorpix/Getty
This week marks 44 years sinceJohn Lennon’s tragic death— and his sonSean Ono Lennonsays the late Beatle’s wifeYoko Onois still not over the devastating loss.
Sean, 49, toldBBC Radio 6 Musicthat Yoko, 91, spoke of John “every day” after he was shot and killed in New York City on Dec. 8, 1980 at age 40.
“I grew up with my mom speaking about my dad every day. She famously cut her hair when my dad died [because] in Japan, you used to cut your hair when your husband dies,” he said. “So she spoke of him every day and I think she never has moved on from that relationship.”
Yoko Ono and Sean Lennon attend a Council Reception launching Yoko Ono’s exhibition ‘To The Light’ at The Serpentine Gallery on June 18, 2012 in London, England.Dave M. Benett/Getty
Dave M. Benett/Getty
“The truth is, even when they were apart, they were always talking. So I don’t think they ever really broke up. All his stuff was still in the apartment with my mom. It’s not like they had a real separation,” he said. “I think it’s clear what his view of my mom was in his life. She was monumental, obviously, and the whole album is about her. She’s there in the studio… It sort of confirmed how deeply in love he was with my mom.”
Sean, who became a musician himself, added to the BBC that he’s spoken to Yoko about the “Lost Weekend,” and said she still has “bad feelings” about the time, but knew that in order for the relationship to survive, she and John needed a break.
“I think every relationship is very difficult, and I don’t believe that human beings have really solved the love equation,” he said. “So I think they did the best of anyone I can see.”
Sean recently opened up to PEOPLEabout his parents’ relationship, and said John’s “entire life and art was infused with his relationship with my mom.”
John Lennon and Yoko Ono in June 1969.Bettmann/Getty
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“The whole album is about my mom. They’re mostly love songs about her,” he said. “My dad declared to the world that ‘John and Yoko’ were one word. I think he always had his heart set on her. He was so in love with her. They had a legendary love and I think that this album is infused with that love. You can hear it.”
He also explained that his decision to become a musician wasn’t because he had a particular passion for it, but because it helped him feel close to his late father.
“I never played music because I was good at it. I lost my father and I didn’t know how to fill that void. Learning how to play his songs on guitar was a way to process the loss as an activity that made me feel connected to him,” he said. “When you’ve lost a parent, things like that motivate you — because you’re trying to find them. Making music always made me feel like I was getting to know him better.”
source: people.com