Woman Asks the Mother of the Baby She Nannies to ‘Pop in' Less — Now There’s Tension Between Them

Mar. 15, 2025

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The woman took to Reddit on Wednesday, Jan. 15 to detail the situation on the community’s“Am I the A——’forum — a place where people can go to get input on interpersonal issues.

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The woman says she “extremely politely” asked the mom if she could “limit the pop ins to once or twice a day.” And while her employer agreed, she says the mom has since “been cold towards me.”

“Was it wrong of me?” the Redditor asked at the end of her post.

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Others noted that it might have less to do with what the OP said and more to do with how she said it.

source: people.com